JD (Jan) Derbyshire peacefully kicked the bucket on Sept 26th, 2025. A curious, non-binary, queerdo lesbian, proud parent and working class artist, they haphazardly “trained” with Keith Johnstone at Loose Moose Theatre in Calgary, and came from an “I’ve got a flashlight, you’ve got a piece of velvet cloth, let’s make a show” theatre-making culture. It was through their working class lens that they saw and experienced things from the bottom to the top, constantly challenging why things had always been done the way they’d been done, and asking–who is it serving?
They worked in various forms–theatre, film, drawing, clowning, stand-up comedy, sketch comedy, pod-plays and parenthood, and published a novel at age 61. They were a long- standing consultant for Equity, Diversity, Inclusion and Access with Calgary Arts Development (CADA)–work they were fuelled by and deeply proud of. They taught, mentored and worked with many artists over the years, always aiming to bring joy, playfulness and a collaborative spirit to the room.
JD made most of their work outside of the granting system and supported others in figuring out how to do the same. A big believer in finding ways to learn without being thrown into lifelong debt, they largely avoided academia–except for that time they earned a Masters from OCAD University at the age of 53 and without an undergraduate degree.
Born in Calgary, JD moved to Vancouver in 1988, and did a couple of stints in Toronto and Calgary before moving back to Vancouver in 2015. They became a parent in 1991 and raised Kacey largely solo, in a time way before it was cool for lesbians to have kiddos. They met their soulmate Dana in 2004 while playing lesbian road hockey in an East Van school yard. What followed was and is a revolutionary love for the ages.
Always an advocate for defining success for yourself, they were jokingly self-described as “perhaps not the most successful artist.” They led a life fuelled by curiosity and wonder through both the dark and the light times, which were never one or the other but rather “twilight, all of it twilight.” They were a true outsider artist, an advocate and activist, a soft-hearted rebel, a natural mischief-maker. They loved clouds, apples, books, bike rides, road trips, Snoopy, cross-country skiing, snow-shoeing, canoeing, hiking, lake swims, camping, snacks, big deep talks, uplifting soul classics, dog walks in the forest, all creatures great and small, and lots of other things too.
JD was a sharp-witted, generous, hilarious, wise, thoughtful, deep feeling, kind-hearted, and brilliant, 25-years sober weirdo who added dimension and depth to every life they touched. A dedicated dharma student and meditation practitioner, they were a one-of-a-kind soul who has probably taken to this whole afterlife thing like a fish to water. They always were mystical like that.
Some JD’isms to carry in your back pocket: look for the good in everyone, fight for joy, make mistakes, question binaries, be generous, doubt happens, nothing to prove, have opinions and have them changed, try not to use Amazon, floss your teeth, try to thread the needle between earnestness and goofiness, and be weird. Totally weird. WEIRD IS GOOD!
JD is survived by their Dot (daughter) Kacey Rohl, their partner of 22 years (and counting) Dana Ayotte, their mother Jean Derbyshire, sister Jean Storey (Ed), aunt and uncle Diane and Hank Bakker, aunt Sister Patricia “Trish” Derbyshire, cousin Jessica Bolland, furry be(a)sties Nugget and Aggie, and many other family and friends. They are predeceased by brother Duff Derbyshire and father Francis Wallace “Wally” Derbyshire.
As per their wishes, no service will be held. Stay tuned for a possible memorial dance party at a later date. In lieu of flowers, give some cash to the gal on the street who needs a coffee or a smoke, or consider a donation to Rainbow Refugee, a local Food Bank or the Ucluelet Aquarium.
We’re a bunch of lucky ducks, us who knew them. So long and thanks for all the fish, JD. You are loved and You Are Love. The energy that is you will not be lost.


37 Comments
Bill Marchant
JD, we all love you so. It’s awfully quiet here without you. Please send jokes from beyond. We’ll never not need you. For now, we can reread this inspirational obituary ten thousand times over. No one could ever catch you, mad butterfly, but this is the most brilliant reflection of all your light. All love to Dana, Kacey, your sweet Mom, and everyone who ever felt your grace.
Dana
This means a lot, thank you Bill ❤️
Jess
JD, you helped me get sober. The first time I stepped into a meeting really ready to take the 1st step, I heard you share, and I heard so much of my story in your story. I have such fond memories of walking up to you with such gratitude in my heart for what you shared, and intended to ask for your help, but emotions kept the words from coming out, and you looked at me with such care and fondness, and put out your arms and said “Can I give you a hug?”. Thank you for your guidance, support and love in those first couple of months. I am overjoyed, grateful and honoured that our paths crossed. I’m sending you the biggest hug back now, and forever.
Love, condolences and thoughts to JD’s families, loved ones and all those lives they touched.
Jenna Rodgers
JD. Your life left indelible marks on all the paths you walked and the people you touched. When I think of you, I think of a stand up human – an incredible thinker with an unparalleled curiosity about the world around you. You taught me so much about creative generosity, about ways of thinking… about self acceptance and about field noting everything. Thank you for sharing your weird with us, and sorry your journey was so short. Life ain’t fair, but you live on in your loved ones and in all of the ways you’ve affected change. Thank you for sharing your time with me, for big deep talks, and hot coffee on cold days. Thank you for keeping your heart open, and for leading by example. You truly were (are) extraordinary. Sending so much love to your family and those living in the big deep grief. <3
Julie Scriver, Goose Lane Editions
To the family and friends of JD: you have celebrated JD with such love and attention in this beautiful tribute. We were fortunate to be introduced to JD’s genius by editor Bethany Gibson, and to publish JD’s novel MERCY GENE. It was a privilege to share part of their journey. Their light shines brightly.
Misha
Memorial only encapsulate fraction of JD‘s bright light. They move through this world changing everyone’s who cross their path. I will always remember the deep talks and uncontrollable laughter we shared. I will always appreciate their encouragement as I stumbled through sobriety and journey of mental illness. I feel lucky to have spent wonderful moments with them Kacey, and Dana. Much love ❤️
Evelyn Chew
Big Love and light to JD and all that loved them! ❤️
Denalda Williams
It’s been too long since I saw you JD. I’m so happy you lived your life on your terms. I’m smiling know how much you are loved. Sad to have to say goodbye. Good of now kid
Denalda Williams
Autocorrect!! GOOF OFF NOW
Chris Casillan
❤️💙💜🖤💛💚🧡💟🤎🤍🩷🫀🩶🫶🩵❤️🔥
Ray ❤️🎈💓💔
Well said.
Jared TF
JD, was an always friendly leader of arts. Confident but humble is their approach to arts admin and processes. We always had great chats and catchups and I’m glad to say that our last encounter in the summer was just such an occasion. JD will be missed around here and I hope to be as well regarded and remembered. Kitakitamahtsin (See you again) JD.
Tom Davis
JD, thank you for everything. You have had such an amazing impact on those around you. Seeing so many loving tributes pouring out online is only the tip of the iceberg. You taught me how to have more courage and integrity. As an artist and as a person. I’m going to miss you terribly. Thanks for the laughs, pal.
Patti Pon
To have had the great honour of considering JD a wonderful colleague and an exceptional friend is something I will hold with me for all my days. JD not only taught me how to be more curious, generous and lead with joy, but they also helped us to develop Calgary Arts Development into the kind of organization that we are today that also leads with curiosity, generosity and a genuine desire to be in service to our communities. Thank you JD always and I love you.
To Kacey, Dana and JD’s loved ones, my sincere condolences and know that you are surrounded in a circle of love and care from all of us who had the privilege of knowing JD.
Be well.
Lori Dungey
My time with Jan was brief, onstage doing improv at City Stage. But the time we did have, I recall, as being fun and silly and piercingly smart. Much Aroha to their family.
Jor-Dawn
Thank you for this beautiful obituary, for such a beautiful human. JD really gave a shit, about people, animals, sociery, everything. They were such an inspiration, they helped me through a lot of dark times and made me realize I didn’t have to feel so much shame around those dark times and to accept them as a part of me, just as the good times.
Big love to Kacey and Dana and everyone else who loved JD so much.
You are missed, JD. We love you xo
Kim Selody
You were the best, most fearless collaborator I ever worked with in rehearsal and on stage. You could always make me laugh and think at the same time, a real treasure. Such joy and excitement in the room when you were there. As Eeyore said to Christopher Robin “You will be missed”
Bethany Gibson
I was introduced to the written work of JD by a mutual literary friend, who recommended I read this MS, who suggested it would be like nothing I had read before. Goose Lane published Mercy Gene in 2023, and I (lucky me) got to edit it. What a gorgeous, alive, genius work, by the gorgeous, alive, genius JD. What a delight that editorial process was, what a dedicated and creative and open and thoughtful person JD is. (Still is.) What a loss this is for this world, for JD’s loved ones, what a gain for the universe, where, without doubt, JD is still working their singular magic.
Melanie Haggert
I met JD and the gang Dana, Kacey and Jean many years ago. I am so honoured to call them all my friends with heart connections that run deep. JD and I had coffee when they were in Calgary last year in the fall, we shed some tears sharing all the loss for us both at the time. We had a great catch up session like we did when our paths crossed. We hugged said we loved each other and said see ya when we see ya knowing it would be sooner rather than later….well we never had that catch up session again.but I cherish all the wonderful conversations we’ve had over the years and consider myself so blessed to have gotten that last hug and love in a year ago. When you surround yourself with amazing humans, we all become better together. Your loss in this realm will be felt deeply and I am heartbroken we won’t have our next coffee and solve the world problems. Sending love to Dana, Kacey Jean and family and anyone else who knew and loved JD Miss ya! Love ya ❤️🥲
Sara Durning
For once I’m grateful to FB for thinking it knows what I need. Not understanding the message I followed the link. My sincere condolences to you and Jan’s family. Their obituary certainly captured who Jan was, and I only knew her for 2 years.
I am one of several classmates who was in the 2 year Design, Inclusive Design Masters program at OCAD. Like Jan, I didn’t have an undergrad degree and graduated with a masters at age 50. They certainly made our decisions livelier and us better for having the privilege of knowing them if only for a short while.
Sara
Pam Rocker
JD, you are a gold nugget I keep in my pocket. Your wisdom and grace and energy are unparalleled. Your presence let me exhale. Making you laugh was the best feeling. I treasure every moment that I got to see you, listen to you, vent to you, and watch your art and your heart. I really can’t comprehend that you’re not here physically. But I know you would say that you’ll always be here, and that we are all connected and can never be alone. So much love to your dearest ones who have the heaviest grief to hold.
Ebony Gooden
There is no words that I can say in English. Everything I want to say is something I wish I could sign to you. You are one of the few reason why I remain in Calgary, Alberta. I did not feel alone. I felt validated. I felt supported. I felt empowered. You may be physically gone but the impact you have on me and the community is everlasting. Thank you. With all my heart. Rest in power, friend.
Marnie Dunnaway
From JD’s Vancouver lawyer/friend: JD could not move without leaving a trail of sparks. Others walk; she danced. What a loss.
Paige Lansky
JD was so kind to me when we did the OYR Lab together. When we did a silent recreation of the sinking of the Titanic, JD played the iceberg. They told me that resting is a form of protest and I will always remember that. They wore socks with octopi on them and we talked about our love of cephalopods. I thought about them all the time afterwards, and it’s been probably ten years now. A fearless art maker, a deeply kind person who looked out for everyone. I am really gutted to hear of their passing. Sending lots of love.
Lorraine James
JD, Jan, Mx. Derbyshire, you will be missed but mostly, you will be remembered and appreciated. Thanks for teaching us at the Gastown Actors Studio and for directing us. It’s too bad we won’t cross paths again but I’m glad I had the chance to meet and learn from you.
Leslie Mildiner
Oh my lord, I just got the sad news. I hadn’t seen Jan for many years, but worked (around them?) sharing gigs at the Vancouver Comedy Fest and related, back in the Jurassic Age – what a loss of a whip-smart, funny, sweet person xx
Colin
They were the “assurance” I needed when I was about to take the terrifying leap into sobriety, two months before I began that reformation in January of 1999. An incidental conversation, and their wide-open heart and generosity changed my life. They were the first human I uttered the phrase “I’m an alcoholic” too, and with that, they reached into three pocket and offered me their own sobriety coin. If you know, you know.
I carry proudly, the deepest respect and a sense of privilege for having that three minute transformative encounter. And all the other joyful moments of laughter, heart and light. The opportunities to hang with Kacey in the lobby of the Belfry, where I was front of house manager, while they were on stage in the collaborative show “Ingenious Speculations.” Life long memories I cherish already.
“You’ve got to change your life if you want to change your life.”
Fly high JD, as ever. I shall always carry you in my heart. Thank you.
Rev. Keith Murray
JD, we didn’t know each other well, but you were the coolest cat, and you left an impression on me. You let everyone see the gold in your soul. Rough-hewn, strewn with your guts and sinew, revealing the depth of bedrock that allowed such a brilliant vein to come to light.
Every effort you made to create, to risk being seen, in the time you had here, mattered. You made an impact. So many others I know (and the many, many more I don’t) felt seen, loved, and known because of you and your art. Your journey of radical self-love and compassionate acceptance (and of courageously fighting the blank page) was ultimately altruistic: you helped others learn to love and accept the rough edges in themselves, too—and in doing so, find the guts to face the dark, and find their glitter.
I’m sad for all who have to see you off, but I’m stoked to see the gold glimmering in those whose souls were touched by yours.
Thank you for making kindness cool. May your next adventure be blessed—you have been a blessing.
Camyar
JD – what a wonderful, kind, generous and talented human. While their physical absence is so missed, as someone who had the sporadic pleasure of their company, I truly believe the ripples of JD’s existence carry on forever.
Emma
I attended a disability arts workshop you hosted and remember thinking “wow, this is someone I hope I end up like when I get older” – a short period and a big impact, sending love to you in the beyond xo
Adrienne Wong
I will live forever changed by my friendship with JD. I am grateful for our time grappling with difficult ideas, laughing helplessly, crying tears of joy and grief, and the honour of witnessing my friend become even more themselves. Thank you, JD, for embracing my growing family with delight and generosity. Thank you for expanding my family to include Kacey, Dana and everyone who loves you so. “The only way through it is through it.” I hear your voice in my head and will miss hearing it with my ears. The energy that is JD persists in me, my family, and all of you who were fortunate to share a little time on this spinning rock with them. Love ya, bud.
Richard
I did not know this person but I *truly* wish I had after reading this soulful description of their beautifully lived life.
Jake Anthony
JD was an amazing human, artist and someone who so many of us in the theatre and EDIA communities looked up to during their time on this earth! I’m so thankful that I was able to get to know, tread the boards with and be mentored by them. Rest easy, my friend!
Joe Dorman
I got to know JD last year when she was visiting her brother Duff at foothills, the smiles and laughter…..banter between her and i and the stories of her brother….she was a soul that was easily pulled to….her smile….that up to something twinkle in her eye or how she just made you feel worth the time to want to know….. her love for her wnba basketball liberty…and me telling her at some point i would have her wearing a redsox hat in place of that yankee hat she wore…. she always had time to come see duffy…..i was there 3 months so i got to know the two very well and the last time i saw her was the day he passed i stood on my only good leg to hug her as tight as i could .she didnt have to check on me but she did letting me share pics of grandson and i that she met…. all i know is she made my life a better place even for little moments…..and i feel i wish i could have known her like most of you all did, but i am blessed to have gotten to know her and her brother ….. better have that signed copy of your book when i see you next JD ya promised 🙂
Kacey Rohl
hi joe! this is kacey– JD’s kiddo, duff’s brother. we met once or twice at the hospital. you brought such a light to duffy’s time at foothills. i know my mom was so grateful that you were there and had his back and for all the sports chats you three would have while duffy was sucking back a smoke & a coffee in record time. thank you for all the care you showed duffy and for taking the time to leave this note. it really got me– in the best way! i now have that yankees hat– i’ll hope you’ll understand why i need to keep wearing it. i’ll call up moms “up to something” twinkle in my eye (as best i can) every time i do. and as always– go liberty!
Kacey Rohl
oops– i mean duffy’s niece!
Nicki W.
Late to the show – So sorry
JD … Authentic, disruptive, funny, angry and yet still loving.
Co conspirator in hope.
xxx Nx